If you want to dramatically improve your relationships, it’s
time to get yourself a coach.
There is only so much you can do on your own. It's almost impossible to see what you do that doesn't work in your relationships without outside assistance. What you do see, you are destined to repeat without new ways to think and move in relationship.
There is no other domain where we expect ourselves to excel without training or guidance. We "wing it" every day in our relationships, unaware of the pitfalls and opportunities we face daily. With skilled coaching, you can get on with actually practicing what works in relationship and begin experiencing some lasting results and breakthroughs.
These tools last a lifetime. And is there really anything else more important in life than our relationships?
If you’re looking for a magic wand, a silver bullet, or a get-fixed quick solution, we're not the right coaches for you. Creating great relationship, like any skill to develop, requires recurrent practice and focused diligent attention over time.
Our goal is to
offer tools and guidance specific to your concerns and desires, and to offer support as you implement these into your daily relationship experience. With coaching support and healthy relationship practices, you can learn
new ways to be that will revitalize your relationship and restore intimacy,
harmony and passion.
It's our experience that the only reason you get stuck in relationship - whether single or in a couple - is that you don't have a better way to do it. We'll offer you a much better way to do, where you actually have real shot at creating relationships that are everything you dream of.
We blend our teaching and counseling background together with spirit, heart and practical tools for a supportive educational approach to coaching that will open radical new possibilities for you in relationship. You can count on us to walk our talk, listen to your concerns and invent practices that will enable you to produce the intimacy, joy and success in your relationship that you long for.
If you’re curious, if that little voice inside is saying “Yes! I want to create great relationships!", then schedule an Introductory Call with one of us before you talk yourself into settling for less than 100% of what you want. After our session, you will know for sure whether or not we are the coaches for you.
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Please be advised that we only work with people who are willing to take 100% responsibility for EVERYTHING in their relationship, are open to coaching and willing to take on new practices with great diligence. Our cutting-edge material is life-changing for those who dare to give it to themselves.
Why Have A Coach?
People hire coaches for basically three reasons: they want more, they want to grow, they want it easier.
- Because you know you deserve to have what you want and you want to manifest your desires more quickly and easily
- Because you're done struggling and it would be OK with you if your life and relationships got much easier
- Because you know that learning new relationship strategies are required for you to break through old patterns that don't work (You can't keep doing the same thing and expect different results)
- Because you are ready to attract success in your relationship in a way that works instead of working so hard for it
- Because it's time to start taking much, much better care of yourself and giving yourself what you want
Coaching About What?
We most frequently coach clients on:
- Improving communication
- Getting in touch with what you want and how to co-create what you want with your partner
- Supporting you with relationship practices for greater intimacy, deep connection and passion
- Expressing yourself fully and living more authentically in your relationship
- Fighting fair and resolving conflicts
- Forgiving the past and creating a new desired future
- Using resentments and complaints as creative launching pads for change
- Taking 100% responsibility and utilizing your full power to realize your relationship vision
- Attracting and allowing greater fulfillment, joy, passion, peace, play and love into your relationships
- And for singles, of course, how to actually create that fantastic relationship and deal with all the challenges of "singlehood".
What is Coaching?
Coaches partner with clients in a thought-provoking and creative
process that inspires them to realize and maximize their full
potential. Professional coaches provide an ongoing partnership designed
to help clients produce results in their lives. Coaches help people improve their performance and enhance the
quality of their lives and relationships.
Coaches are trained to listen, to observe and to customize their
approach to individual client needs. They seek to offer, and elicit from the client, solutions and
strategies, believing the client is naturally
creative, resourceful and able to produce desired change.
How Does Coaching Work?
We know that a session here and there without investment and commitment is set up to fail. It takes time for bodies to learn new relationship practices. And
so we only offer customized coaching programs that extend over a period
of several months for you who are willing to invest in yourself and
your relationship — the fees we charge are nominal in comparison to the quantum
value and results that coaching brings to your life and relationships.
Our individually tailored coaching programs
may include weekly individual and/or couples coaching sessions, live trainings and online study
courses.
Coaching sessions are done on the phone, making it very easy and
convenient regardless of where you live. We work with clients internationally. We
simply schedule a time to talk and you call us at the appointed hour.
We end each call with homework assignments and practices to engage in between sessions and we may email between sessions as well.
We
coach healthy and successful individuals and couples like you who have a desire for
accelerated evolution in your relationships. You're interested
in exploring alternative ways of using your energy, attention and power
so that
it generates a significant and positive impact in your every
relationship. You value and know the benefit of partnering with someone
who has expertise to help you get what you're wanting more quickly
and efficiently.
We look
forward to talking with you and helping you get from where you are to
where you want to be.
What Clients Say
"Keith
and I have been together 20 years this coming July 2009. We owe this
20-year milestone in large part to your loving "intervention" and
skillful coaching early on in our relationship. You understood our
souls and invited our hearts to see one another in a new light, to
appreciate and celebrate our differences. We are forever grateful for
the gift you have been, and continue to be in our lives."
Mary Dachauer, Educator, Kaiser Permanente
"I have been working with Sonika for over a year now. My inner and outer life has changed immeasurably! I am the happiest and healthiest I have been in years. My earnings for the first six months of this year are the highest ever. I have increased my rates to clients and expanded my one-hour classes to three-hour workshops. My relationships with family have become gentler and more loving. And best of all, I started a wonderful relationship with a man after being single for three years.
I attribute all of my recent life successes to the excellent, insightful, loving and thought-provoking suggestions and exercises from my coach Sonika. Having been educated in many theratpeutic modalities, she draws the best of the best when coaching her clients. With each question she asks, I challenge myself to go deeper into my core. She knows that I have all my answers. I look forward with excitement to my weekly sessions. I highly, highly recommend her as a coach."
Julie Ann Panneton, Therapist, Vancouver, CANADA
When I was out walking today I was thinking about how much Mark has changed since we started to work with you guys. Of course I have changed too, but the change in Mark has been so huge and dynamic. It's like all the goodness, clear thinking, thoughtfulness, sensitivity and beauty was just waiting under the surface to surge forward. Sometimes he'll say something and it takes me a minute to fully take it in because it is so different from his way of being just a year ago. I am SO grateful...! Mary Morrisette, RN, Northern California
I am also in awe of how I am thriving since first "working" with you. I have been incredibly productive and am taking control of my life and circumstances with so little stress!!! I am so proud of myself. What a fantastic year of growth and pure LOVE - I am amazed!
Paige Ichimura, RE Investor, Incline Village, California
Thank you so much for all your coaching support and your valuable teaching.
You have taught me how to "live" the law of attraction, and how to communicate and be responsible for my truth in conflict. You always support my fullest potential, especially when it comes to loving myself and others. Thanks to working with you, I have more confidence in relating to others. Participating with you and Christian has given me more tools to engage every challenge as an opportunity for growth and change, to make use of the acknowledgment that life mirrors back what is going on inside of me. My prayer is that you will reach many people with your teaching.
Christina de Jongh, Life Coach, Middletown, California
As a woman who staffs transformative weekends for woman and who has participated in personal growth workshop for many years, I believe that Sonika and Christian's work is the missing link that individuals need if they wish to deepen and enrich their relationships with their husbands, wives, or partners. [They} offer practical exercises and step-by-step guidelines to help couples and singles get more of what they really want... closeness, connection, intimacy, and love. AND Sonika and Christian are truly amazing with the one-on-one connection and coaching they do with their students. If you have had difficulty manifesting the quality of relationship you desire, I would highly recommend working with them!
Carol Riggs Wright, MA in Spiritual Psychology, Teacher and Life Coach
Sonika brings heart, presence and years of expertise to her coaching and teaching which is why I keep coming back to her. I've had breakthroughs around relationship issues that I might still be struggling with if it weren't for her work. If you want to "wake up" to a whole new perspective on relationship and you're serious about having one that actually works, then you couldn't be in more capable hands than hers.
Lisa Schrader, Author "Kama Sutra 52", founder of AwakeningShakti.com, Sacred Sexuality Coach seen on Oprah.