The Gift of Conflict
Advanced 2-Day Relationship Training
Aren't complaints, conflicts, and fights just an exasperating part of relationship? How often does repeated conflict lead straight to breakdowns and breakups? And how tiring is it to bicker over insignificant details that somehow seem big?
The only reason you find yourself with the same complaints and conflicts over and over is that you don't have a better way to deal with them, and you don't have a bigger purpose to use them for.
At our last workshop, one woman had the complaint: "I just keep running into these men that aren't committed and I have to save them!" A married couple said: "We just don't know what we want!" Another man kept repeating the same break-up-get-back pattern with his partner, driving them both crazy.
The usual ways of dealing with complaints and conflicts try to analyze and solve them to make them go away, as the nasty peace-disturbers they are. Complaints and conflicts have never been put in their right place. Until now.
Traditional approaches totally miss the huge gift in conflict. This workshop will teach you a completely fresh and uplifting view of conflict. When you leave, you'll never again have to be afraid of conflict and worry about its consequences, because you will understand its true purpose. You'll never have to bicker about the same complaints, because they will fit in your larger vision.
You'll have a radically different set of tools to deal with complaints and conflicts as they arise; tools that will utilize the conflicts to lift you up instead of sucking the life out of you.
Some of what we'll cover:
- New paradigm for approaching and dealing with complaints, conflict, fights, and triggers that will shift FOREVER how you feel about conflicts.
- Move from resisting conflict to embracing conflict as a tool for expansion
- From fighting against each other to moving together
- How to move as partners instead of adversaries
- Un-box each other from limiting past stories - Create new, empowering stories together
- Discover the secret to using your relationship conflicts for the greater good of everyone.
- Learn the root cause of all triggers and conflicts so you can choose a new response
- How to deal with intense emotions, like anger and fear
- How to protect the weaker, immature aspects of ourselves
- What not to do in a fight
- How to change your beliefs
- And lots more....
