The Possibility of Sex


Mastering the Union of Body, Heart and SpiritĀ 

Advanced 2-Day Relationship Training



"Divine sex is mystical and miraculous, a profoundly deep spiritual experience. To surrender to the high art of lovemaking is to allow yourself to be consumed by pleasure, to allow the sexual energy moving through you and your partner to take on a life of its own."

For a thousand years, our sexual expression has been informed by the authoritarian male-dominant strategy to keep our emotions, bodies and basic instincts under tight control.

The implied concern is that if we surrender to pleasure, and fully express ourselves sexually, that somehow the very fabric of our families and culture will unravel into chaos.  

The truth is sex is good for your health and improves your mood. There is nothing unspiritual about pleasure. There is no other human activity where we can as effectively lose the ego, unite body and soul, escape duality and time, and experience transcendental union with both another and God.

Most of us do not experience the transcendental possibility of sex. Why? Because we have inherited a great deal of junk about sex. Our bodies are not beautiful enough, our smells are bad, orgasms are the end goal, our penis is too small or too big, we must perform, stopping after you start is not okay, you should just "know" how to pleasure your partner, sex should be perfect every time, foreplay is not the "real" thing - intercourse is, you have to have sex in a certain order... On and on and on it goes.

It is no wonder when we get in bed that disaster strikes. We are so busy controlling the scene in silence, that we are not free to be ourselves, to allow the sacred fire of sexual energy to move through us.

We all have a secret longing for an experience of losing ourselves in sex to love and God. But so many of us carry guilt-ridden negative messages about sex that we either give up sex altogether, or inadvertently turn lovemaking into an ordinary, hurried, mechanical act of self-focused genital pleasure. We miss out on the opportunity to experience the thrill that comes from slowing down, being present, looking into each other’s eyes, giving ourselves fully to our beloved, surrendering to our partner’s fulfillment and allowing ourselves to be consumed by transcendent love. 

Divine sex is mystical and miraculous, a profoundly deep spiritual experience. To surrender to the high art of lovemaking is to allow yourself to be consumed by pleasure, to allow the sexual energy moving through you and your partner to take on a life of its own. Personalities die as the passionate pulse of sexual fire spontaneously expresses itself. Time disappears. You experience the Infinite through total presence. The senses are magnified a thousand times. Each touch seems like the first. Giving and taking are the same. Boundaries between bodies blur. Heaven and earth merge as body and soul are delivered to unimagined heights of ecstasy.

To discover this soul-merging connection with Eternity and God in divine sex, we must develop new practices. First, we must embrace pleasure and sex as good, and revere our self and our beloved as holy. We must shift our attention from our genitals to our heart, focus not so much on getting pleasure as giving love and fulfillment, and replace reaching an end goal with attention to a moment’s pleasure. We must learn to slow down and pay attention to our experience in the moment, to trust our body’s impulses, to give voice to our every arising desire and feeling, and surrender completely to the full spontaneous expression of our sexual passion.

In this workshop, we will begin to unravel the crazy sex messages that prevent us from being our Full Potential Selves in sex, and discover a fun, new way to express ourselves uncensored in lovemaking - either alone or with a partner. We will learn what it means to take full responsibility for our sexual pleasure and release ourselves from the burden of reading minds. We will shift from "getting" or "performing" and "achieving a goal" to being present to pleasure and energy flow in the moment. We will re-claim our bodies, our right to sexual pleasure and full self- expression.

There will be no nudity or sex in this course. We may watch sexually explicit videos for educational purposes.

The cost for Possibility of Sex is $397 per person. 

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